What to do when roommates stop talking to each other
Start with a short written message proposing a practical conversation about rent, chores, guests, and shared space. Keep the tone neutral and suggest a time or a mediator. Do not force a deep emotional reconciliation before basic logistics are stable.
Use a shared document for bills and necessary notices while communication is strained. Keep messages factual and preserve records.
If silence is tied to fear, harassment, or safety, seek outside help rather than pushing for direct contact.