Safe roommate meetups: where and how
For a first conversation, choose a public café, library, or video call. Share your meeting details with someone you trust and keep your own transportation. Discuss dates, budget, schedules, and lease status before entering a private home.
If the room itself is the next step, tour in daylight when possible and meet every person who lives there. Do not bring cash, a checkbook, or documents you do not need.
A good roommate understands that safety is mutual. Respect for a cautious process is a green flag.